{"id":85969,"date":"2021-10-16T01:00:40","date_gmt":"2021-10-16T01:00:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/365smiles.net\/?p=85969"},"modified":"2021-10-15T07:31:48","modified_gmt":"2021-10-15T07:31:48","slug":"be-present","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/365smiles.net\/nl\/wees-aanwezig\/","title":{"rendered":"Wees 100% aanwezig voor iemand"},"content":{"rendered":"

When you are talking to someone, put away your phone, your computer and your work, and be there for them. Listen to them; without judging. Don’t give suggestions unless they ask for them; give them your full attention.<\/p>\n

This seems easy, but it requires some effort. Because our thoughts have a greater capacity than the speed at which words are spoken. So it is logical that our minds wander while someone is speaking. And because of this, we do not give 100% attention.<\/p>\n

Many people feel very lonely inside, even though they are not alone.If you manage to master this skill, the others will feel heard and understood. By listening in this way, you can help that person feel connected and supported. And give them a smile.<\/p>\n

Tip voor vandaag
<\/strong>Wees 100% aanwezig voor iemand<\/p>\n

\u00a0Leg je telefoon, je computer en je werk weg\u00a0 als je met iemand praat en wees er voor hem of haar. Luister naar hen, zonder te oordelen. Geef geen suggesties tenzij ze erom vragen; geef hen je volle aandacht.<\/p>\n

Dat lijkt gemakkelijk, maar het vraagt wel wat inspanning. Omdat onze gedachten een grotere capaciteit hebben dan de snelheid waarmee woorden worden uitgesproken. Dus het is logisch dat onze gedachten blijven werken terwijl iemand aan het spreken is. En hierdoor geven we geen 100% aandacht.<\/p>\n

Veel mensen voelen zich vanbinnen heel eenzaam, ook al zijn ze niet alleen. Als je er in slaagt van deze skill onder de knie te krijgen, zullen de anderen zich gehoord en begrepen voelen. Door op deze manier te luisteren, kun je die persoon helpen zich verbonden en gesteund te voelen. En je geeft ze een goed gevoel en een glimlach.<\/p>\n

Tip voor vandaag<\/strong>
Wees 100% aanwezig voor iemand.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Leg je telefoon, computer of je werk neer als je met iemand praat. Wees 100% aanwezig. Luister, zonder te oordelen.<\/p>\n

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