{"id":86599,"date":"2021-12-15T01:00:25","date_gmt":"2021-12-15T01:00:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/365smiles.net\/?p=86599"},"modified":"2021-12-14T15:34:39","modified_gmt":"2021-12-14T15:34:39","slug":"show-interest","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/365smiles.net\/en\/show-interest\/","title":{"rendered":"Show genuine interest in someone"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The greatest gift you can give someone is to sincerely show your interest in them.<\/p>\n<p>This gives them the feeling of meaning something, of being valuable. And besides our basic physical needs (air, water, food, exercise), this is one of our most important emotional needs.<\/p>\n<p><strong>How to do it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Make eye contact<\/li>\n<li>Mention their name<\/li>\n<li>Give your undivided (!) attention (no cell phone or other distractions)<\/li>\n<li>Listen (and use appropriate body language)<\/li>\n<li>Encourage them<\/li>\n<li>Give compliments<\/li>\n<li>Keep in touch the old-fashioned way<\/li>\n<li>Ask questions<\/li>\n<li>Remember the special events in their life<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Tip for today<br \/><\/strong>Show your sincere interest in\u00a0 someone<\/p>\n<p>Het mooiste geschenk dat je iemand kan geven is oprecht je interesse tonen in die persoon.<\/p>\n<p>Dat geeft hen het gevoel van iets te betekenen, van waardevol te zijn. En naast onze fysieke basisbehoeften (lucht, water, voeding, beweging) is dit een van onze belangrijkste emotionele behoeften.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Hoe doe je dat?<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Maak oogcontact<\/li>\n<li>Noem hun naam<\/li>\n<li>Geef je onverdeelde (!) aandacht (geen gsm of andere afleidingen)<\/li>\n<li>Luister (en gebruik de juiste lichaamstaal)<\/li>\n<li>Moedig hen aan<\/li>\n<li>Geef complimentjes\u00a0<\/li>\n<li>Houd contact op de ouderwetse manier<\/li>\n<li>Stel vragen<\/li>\n<li>Onthoud de speciale gebeurtenissen in hun leven<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Tip voor vandaag<br \/><\/strong>Toon oprechte interesse in iemand<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/365smiles.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/3D_De-magie-van-onvergetelijke-dates-thuis_M-150x150.png\" alt=\"3D_cover_De magie van onvergetelijke dates thuis_M\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/>Voor mijn boek en online programma <em>De magie van onvergetelijke dates<\/em> heb ik research gedaan bij vrouwen die al een tijdje in een relatie zaten. \u00a0Een van hen zei het volgende: \u201c<em>Wij zijn al zo lang samen, ik zou niet weten waarover wij nog kunnen praten tijdens een romantische date<\/em>\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>En zij is zeker niet alleen. Als je een tijdje samen bent, bestaat de kans dat jullie enkel nog praten over het werk, de kinderen, de financi\u00ebn, de praktische zaken\u2026.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Met elkaar praten wordt veel gemakkelijker<\/strong> als je niet meer bezig bent met jezelf, maar oprecht interesse in de ander toont.\u00a0 En zelfs al ben je al jaren samen, je zal verbaasd zijn dat er nog dingen zijn die je misschien niet wist van elkaar. Trouwens er is niets meer aantrekkelijk dan je eigen partner die (opnieuw) interesse in jou toont.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Daarom geef ik je in mijn boek \u00e9n nog meer in het aanvullend online programma tips en tricks voor leuke gesprekken met je partner. Zelfs als jouw partner geen \u2018prater\u2019 is. Vandaag geef ik je een korte teaser van de 101 conversatie, een van de vele leuke extra&#8217;s bij het gratis online programma. Meer weten? <a href=\"https:\/\/365smiles.net\/en\/landingpagina-romantische-dates\/\">Klik hier<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/365smiles.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/3D_De-magie-van-onvergetelijke-dates-thuis_M-150x150.png\" alt=\"3D_cover_De magie van onvergetelijke dates thuis_M\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/>For my book and online program <em>De magie van onvergetelijke dates thuis<\/em>, I did research on women who had been in a relationship for a while. \u00a0One of the women had a resistance to start dating again: &#8220;<em>We&#8217;ve been together so long, I wouldn&#8217;t know what we could still talk about on a romantic date.<\/em>&#8220;<\/p>\n<p>And she is certainly not alone. If you&#8217;ve been together for a while, chances are that all you talk about is work, kids, finances, practical matters&#8230;.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Talking to each other becomes so much easier<\/strong> when you stop worrying about yourself and show genuine interest in the other person. Even if you have been together for years, you will be surprised that there are still things you may not have known about each other. Besides, there is nothing more attractive than your own partner showing interest in you (again).\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, in my book and even more in the additional online program, I give you tips and tricks for fun conversations with your partner. Even if your partner is not a &#8220;talker&#8221;.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>For more info, you can click <a href=\"https:\/\/365smiles.net\/en\/landingpagina-romantische-dates\/\">here<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img width=\"720\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/365smiles.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/101-Conversatiestarters-teaser1-720x1024.png\" alt=\"101 Conversatiestarters - teaser1\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/365smiles.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/101-Conversatiestarters-teaser1-720x1024.png 720w, https:\/\/365smiles.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/101-Conversatiestarters-teaser1-211x300.png 211w, https:\/\/365smiles.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/101-Conversatiestarters-teaser1-8x12.png 8w, https:\/\/365smiles.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/101-Conversatiestarters-teaser1-600x854.png 600w, https:\/\/365smiles.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/101-Conversatiestarters-teaser1.png 743w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 720px) 100vw, 720px\" \/><br \/>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img width=\"729\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/365smiles.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/101-Conversatiestarters-teaser2-729x1024.png\" alt=\"101 Conversatiestarters - teaser2\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/365smiles.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/101-Conversatiestarters-teaser2-729x1024.png 729w, https:\/\/365smiles.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/101-Conversatiestarters-teaser2-214x300.png 214w, https:\/\/365smiles.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/101-Conversatiestarters-teaser2-9x12.png 9w, https:\/\/365smiles.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/101-Conversatiestarters-teaser2-600x842.png 600w, https:\/\/365smiles.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/101-Conversatiestarters-teaser2.png 753w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 729px) 100vw, 729px\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The greatest gift you can give someone is to sincerely show your interest in them. 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