{"id":86314,"date":"2021-11-25T01:00:55","date_gmt":"2021-11-25T01:00:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/365smiles.net\/?p=86314"},"modified":"2022-02-12T11:27:07","modified_gmt":"2022-02-12T11:27:07","slug":"be-grateful","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/365smiles.net\/en\/be-grateful\/","title":{"rendered":"Be grateful in your relation"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"86314\" class=\"elementor elementor-86314\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-section-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-db40407 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"db40407\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-row\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-dbfb1ec\" data-id=\"dbfb1ec\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-26d0704 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"26d0704\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-no-translation=\"\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-text-editor elementor-clearfix\">\n\t\t\t\t<p>For my book and online program <a href=\"https:\/\/365smiles.net\/en\/landingpagina-romantische-dates\/\">The Magic of Unforgettable Dates (available soon)<\/a>, I did research on couples who have been together for a long time.<\/p><p>What struck me, and also got me thinking, is that we so easily frustrate ourselves in numerous little mischiefs. We focus on everything our partner could be doing better in our eyes and, as a result, we miss the things we do have to be grateful for.<\/p><p>The relationship therapist who helped my ex-husband and me always said: <strong>couples don&#8217;t break up for the BIG things, but for trivialities<\/strong> like the toothpaste cap, the garbage or the intolerance of small imperfections.<\/p><p><em>Frank and I did eventually break up, but I remain grateful to this therapy, for it taught me a lot.<\/em><\/p><p>For example, to look every day for at least 3 things in your relationship that you are grateful for. Big things, but also the seemingly not so important things. And yes, sometimes you have to look far, but you will notice that after a week, you automatically start noticing those little (and big) things more and more. <strong>Being grateful for this brings smiles to your relationship!<\/strong><\/p><p><strong>Tip for today <\/strong><\/p><p>Be grateful within your relationship.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c088961 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c088961\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-no-translation=\"\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>.elementor-element-c088961{display:none !important}<\/style>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-66122bb elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"66122bb\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-row\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-b7a4a93\" data-id=\"b7a4a93\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-88612cb elementor-widget-divider--view-line elementor-widget elementor-widget-divider\" data-id=\"88612cb\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"divider.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-divider\">\n\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-divider-separator\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-209bfe3 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"209bfe3\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-row\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-5a29380\" data-id=\"5a29380\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0acd46e elementor-widget elementor-widget-wp-widget-convertkit_form\" data-id=\"0acd46e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-no-translation=\"\" data-widget_type=\"wp-widget-convertkit_form.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<script async data-uid=\"c5866eb530\" src=\"https:\/\/chipper-knitter-3081-2.kit.com\/c5866eb530\/index.js\" data-jetpack-boost=\"ignore\" data-no-defer=\"1\" data-no-optimize=\"1\" nowprocket><\/script>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-e50057e elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"e50057e\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-row\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-aeed3fe\" data-id=\"aeed3fe\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b85d13b elementor-widget elementor-widget-wp-widget-convertkit_form\" data-id=\"b85d13b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-no-translation=\"\" data-widget_type=\"wp-widget-convertkit_form.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>.elementor-element-b85d13b{display:none !important}<\/style>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For my book and online program The Magic of Unforgettable Dates (available soon), I did research on couples who have been together for a long time. 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